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Loving your enemies - A Radical Idea   30 Nov 02 by: Steve   
This writing is mostly from a sermon I read by Dr. Ralph Wilson.  I have edited and added some commentary, in red lettering, and also have attempted to change every verse quotation to the King James Version.

Luke 6:27-36

27. But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you,
28. Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you.
29. And unto him that smiteth thee on the one cheek offer also the other; and him that taketh away thy cloak forbid not to take thy coat also.
30. Give to every man that asketh of thee; and of him that taketh away thy goods ask them not again.
31. And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them likewise.
32. For if ye love them which love you, what thank have ye? for sinners also love those that love them.
33. And if ye do good to them which do good to you, what thank have ye? for sinners also do even the same.
34. And if ye lend to them of whom ye hope to receive, what thank have ye? for sinners also lend to sinners, to receive as much again.
35. But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.
36. Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful.

If you were looking for a nice, comfortable religion that doesn't make too many demands on your life, makes you feel better when you're down, and will fix up luxury suites for you in heaven when you die, then you probably shouldn't try to be one of Jesus' disciples. He is demanding. He has the crazy notion that his followers should serve others rather than themselves. He expects them to show integrity when no one is looking. And he expects them to love. Not just people who only occasionally have a bad day. But enemies. Jesus expects you to love your enemies. Don't follow him unless you're ready to experience some discomfort. How often do we as Christians begin to doubt Jesus simply because we are experiencing discomfort and persecution in our lives?

The Blessings and Woes at the beginning of the Sermon on the Plain are radical. The poor, not the rich, will be rewarded. Then Jesus says to be happy when you are persecuted. "(6:23) Rejoice ye in that day, and leap for joy: for, behold, your reward is great in heaven: for in the like manner did their fathers unto the prophets."  Now he goes a step further. We are to love our persecutors.

LOVE YOUR ENEMIES (6:27-28)

The world says -- rightly -- to love your friends, to be loyal to your friends, to look out for your friends. Why? Friends will look out for you. Loving your friends is just smart. This also goes to loving your wife or your husband. As the Apostle Paul observes, (Eph 5:28) " So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself". Loving your wife is a no-brainer unless you're self-destructive. Loving your friends and your spouse is just enlightened self-interest.

But it's altogether another thing to love an enemy, someone who has your disgrace or destruction as a goal. Notice as Jesus teaches his disciples in this passage he uses the familiar rhythm of Hebrew parallelism.

"Love your enemies, Do good to them which hate you."

Jesus uses some heavy words to describe the Christian-haters:

* Greek echthros means "the (personal) enemy"[1] from echtho, "to hate." Ethros means "hateful," and as a noun, "adversary, enemy, foe."

* Greek miseo means "hate, persecute in hatred, detest, abhor."[2] These are people with an active desire for our hurt. Miseo is particularly used as "to persecute." There is a malicious attitude. These are people you can't turn your back on.

* Greek kataraomai means "to curse." Curses are utterances that are designed to bring harm by supernatural operation.[3]

* Greek epereazo means "threaten, mistreat, abuse."[4]

But Jesus says that we are not to just force a smile and mind our own business when we are hated and mistreated. We are to actively try to do good towards our attackers. Agapao is a rare word in Koiné Greek. But it was developed in Christian literature to refer to the kind of love that doesn't serve itself, but extends itself for the sake of another. The other Greek words of the time for love are eros, erotic love, philos, love for family, brotherly love, and stergos, natural affection. Agape love is really a different category of love that the world hadn't seen in action until Jesus came along and infected his followers with it. Oh God, that I could and would display this type of Love in my life.

Jesus uses four very strong words in these verses:

* Greek agapao -- love your enemies

* Greek poimeo kalos -- do good to those who hate you.

* Greek eulogoeo -- to speak well of

* Greek proseuchomai -- to pray for, to intercede for.

None are in the passive voice. They don't just take care of themselves. They are active verbs describing deliberate action to do good to one's enemies.

PERSONAL ENEMIES

Let's pause for a moment. Who are your enemies? I'm not asking who you hate? I'm asking who hates you, or despises you? Often they are the people close to us who have been hurt. A spouse or former spouse. A parent. A son or daughter. A co-worker at the job. An enemy of God who takes it out on you. Someone whose evil action you have exposed and is now out to get you. Who are your enemies?

Now what can you actively do to seek their good? That is the way Jesus is training his disciples to think.

How do I love my enemy? you ask with all seriousness. This isn't a matter of just thinking nice thoughts. We need Jesus to do a heart change within us, to put the kind of heart within us toward our enemies that was in God who sent Jesus to redeem and forgive a world full of despicable people. God-haters, vulgar, foul-mouthed, unfaithful to spouses, lying, cheating, stealing, selfish. The list goes on, and on describes us at our worst. Somehow God loves the people of Israel who thumb their noses at him again and again. He doesn't quit. They are unfaithful and are punished, but then God is at it again seeking to bless them. He doesn't give up. He has a heart of love toward the loveless. That's what we need to love our own enemies. We have plenty of strong examples from our God to follow.

So how do you do it? I don't think we wait for emotions of love. Rather we start with actions of love, and emotions may follow on later. We start doing what Jesus taught right here: (Here, we are acting on faith, we are doing it because we should do it.  We are doing it because we are told to.  I think if we wait for the emotions to come before we begin, we may be waiting a long time.)

* DO GOOD. When you find a way you can do something good for one of your worst enemies, do it. Not to shame him, but because you are trying to find it in your own evil heart to love him for Jesus' sake. We don't look very hard for these ways, do we?  I usually just avoid my enemies, to avoid the confrontation and pain.  

* BLESS. When you think of the person who is slandering you, and saying untrue and nasty things about you, find ways to work blessing into your thoughts. Speak a blessing out loud. When you are with friends, instead of complaining about your unjust treatment, go out of your way (actively) to speak well of your enemies. Why? To shame them? No -- though it will. But to find it in your own heart to love them. (Also, this will help you to stop backbiting people, or maliciously gossiping about them.  How often untruths work their way in our conversations when we are talking about our enemies!)

* PRAY. Intercede. When you're praying, you probably pray for your family and your pastor, and your friends and family. Why don't you begin to pray and intercede for your enemies. Actively. Start to ask God to help them. Ask God to heal the hurts in their lives that are some of the motivators of their evil actions. Ask God to bless them and show mercy to them. Why? To shame them? No, in order to find it in your heart to love them. This will help us to forgive, also.  And we know we must forgive, don't we?

And if you'll do good when you find opportunities, and bless when you think of them, and pray and intercede earnestly before the Lord, you'll find that God will begin to put love in your heart toward your enemies. Actual love. Sometimes even emotions, too. Man, does this ever work!  This empowers you to let go of your old hurts and perceived wrongs.  And sometimes you find, it heals both of you.

You see, Jesus is out to create an army of disciples that look at enemies as he and his Father look at them. As people to love and care for. People to provide rain for. People to die for. Jesus is out to change you and me. And obeying Jesus' commands in these verses, along with the working of the Holy Spirit in our hearts, will accomplish just that.

THE USE OF HYPERBOLE IN TEACHING

Before we discuss Jesus' teaching in the next verses, we need to talk about the use of hyperbole as a teaching tool. Hyperbole is the use of exaggeration to make a point. Merriam-Webster's dictionary defines it as "extravagant exaggeration."[5] Before we say that Jesus could never exaggerate to make a point, let's consider how you and I use hyperbole in everyday speech -- to make a point.

* "I've done that a million times."

* "If I had a nickel for every time you've said that, I'd be a rich man."

* "You are more radiant than the sun, and your eyes sparkle like beams of sunlight."

* "I nearly died laughing."

* "I was hopping mad."

You get the idea. We are constantly finding means of expression to make a point. We allow "poetic license" to create word pictures that aren't literally true, but that make a point in a specially poignant way. We're a people of exaggeration in speech. Don't get me wrong. I'm not talking about stretching the truth here. I'm talking about using exaggerations to make a point.

Jesus used exaggerations to make a point, too. This was a common way of speaking in his day. Here are a few examples of hyperbole in Jesus' teaching:

Matthew 5:29-30
Cutting off a hand or gouging out an eye
Point: Hating sin

Matthew 19:24
A camel going through the eye of a needle
Point: Impossibility

Luke 6:41-42
A beam or timber in one's eye
Point: Clear judgment

Luke 14:26
A man should hate his father and mother, wife and children
Point: Absolute commitment

Hyperbole has a respected place in teaching. Don't make the mistake of expecting every word Jesus says to be LITERALLY true. What he says IS true, of course. But we must take it as it is meant. And we must take it very seriously. He probably uses hyperbole only to highlight a concept his hearers are likely to miss without it. When Jesus speaks in hyperbole, we must be a thousand times more careful to listen. But we'd better discern when Jesus is speaking in hyperbole, or we'll make big mistakes in interpreting Scripture.

REFUSE TO RETALIATE (6:29)

And unto him that smiteth thee on the one cheek offer also the other; and him that taketh away thy cloak forbid not to take thy coat also. (6:29)

"To turn the other cheek" has made it into the English language as an expression meaning to go out of your way to avoid a nasty confrontation. Even though provoked, instead of lashing out, you turn the other cheek. In fact, I think that's pretty close to what this sentence means in Jesus' teaching. Remember, the context is enemies, those who insult us and seek to embarrass us.

Jesus's point is that we are to avoid hitting back, the natural human reaction. How can we love when we hit back with something that will wound our opponent? Husbands and wives sometimes get into arguments; tensions that may have been simmering for years boil over once again. And with the boiling comes anger, and with anger a willingness not just to defend, but to strike back. To get an advantage. To have the last word. To wound. (Who hasn't been there or done that?  We do the most damage sometimes in fights because we have to get that last lick in, to say that thing we know will hurt because in our anger we derive some perverse satisfaction from seeing the other hurt.)

Though Jesus' instruction to turn the other cheek is intended in the arena with a sworn enemy, the principle applies to every area of our lives. Don't retaliate. Don't hit back. Don't move from a position of prayerful love for your enemy to a drop-down, drag-out fight. Love doesn't retaliate. Love seeks the enemy's good (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).

The second command is harder yet to understand. "If someone takes your cloak, do not stop him from taking your tunic" (6:29b). But the principle is the same -- after all, this is Hebrew parallelism. When your enemy takes your cloak, remember that you love him. You are praying for him. You are blessing him and seeking his good. Don't get grabby and nasty and accusing. You love him, remember? Let him have your tunic also.

Oohhh! I can hear you say. You don't think you can do that. I don't think you can, either. But with the Spirit of Jesus working through you he can teach you to love your enemies -- even at their ugliest.

After all, we can learn from the masters of patience, and repeated forgiveness. The Father told Hosea to marry a prostitute and have children by her. Inevitably she returned to her old ways, and left Hosea. But he went searching for her, and brought her back and forgave her. I hear the old, old story of the searching Father loud and clear in the story of Hosea, as I do in the story of the Prodigal Son. On the cross, this is how Jesus treated his enemies ... he treated them to the words, "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do."

And we would quibble over a cloak or a tunic? Jesus is seeking to train disciples to think and act and love like he does. Turning the other cheek is indeed what he did as the soldiers spat on him and flogged him, and jammed a thorny crown into his scalp and mocked him as king. Was he tempted to retaliate. I don't know. Oh, yes! But he didn't. Why? He loved them. That is the radical lesson of verse 29.

TAKING IT LITERALLY

If you've got the point, then Jesus' hyperbole struck home. Now let's consider what this doesn't mean. It doesn't mean that we as a society should let criminals run free to do violence on any citizen. It doesn't mean we shouldn't call the police when robbed. It doesn't mean that we should stand idly by when someone is assaulted. 

This isn't about crime or pacifism in war. It's about loving enemies in a radical way. If we seek to make a new law that overrides the civil law in Exodus against violent crime we miss the point. Then we're trying to make a new law where Jesus intended that we look underneath the law intended to restrain sinful people. (Well Said!) Having now a glimpse of love, don't try to legislate it. 

POSSESSIONS ARE LESS IMPORTANT THAN LOVE (6:30)

And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them likewise. (6:31). Verse 31 follows along in the same vein as vs. 29. When our enemy seeks to take what we own, we are to STILL love him. Our love is to transcend evil deeds. That's Jesus point.

Does Jesus mean that we are to give to every beggar or con man we meet? Of course not. I agree with the statement about the con man, not sure I do about the honest beggar, the one who needs the help.  I would consider that being a good steward of our money.  He expects us to be good stewards of our money. The point is how we treat our enemies, the radical way we love them.

THE GOLDEN RULE (6:31)

Now Jesus moves from love of enemies and the radical way we are to exercise that, to a principal that CAN be applied generally. It's been called the Golden Rule, and with good reason.

Scholars observe that it has been stated negatively by many before Jesus. The great Rabbi Hillel taught, "What is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbor: that is the whole Torah, while the rest is the commentary thereof."[7] But that is merely prudent, a wise way to keep out of trouble with your neighbor. When Jesus turned this to a positive, it IS radical. It states for us clearly how we are to exercise love. We are to treat people the way we would like to be treated. Not the way they DESERVE to be treated, but the way we would like to be treated. I don't think any of us want to be treated the way we DESERVE to be treated! There is still the strong current of radical love of the Father. If Jesus had treated us as we deserve, we'd all be doomed. But he has shown us grace, and now expects his disciples to dispense that same grace and graciousness to the world in his name. Oh, that we would learn this lesson well, myself included!

EXCEED THE SELF-AWARE GOODWILL OF UNBELIEVERS (6:32-34)

(6:32-34) For if ye love them which love you, what thank have ye? for sinners also love those that love them.
And if ye do good to them which do good to you, what thank have ye? for sinners also do even the same.
And if ye lend to them of whom ye hope to receive, what thank have ye? for sinners also lend to sinners, to receive as much again.(6:32-34)

Now Jesus gives several examples to illustrate the difference between a selfish, prudent way of dealing, and his own radical love, looking out for the other person's best interests. Even "sinners," unbelievers, shrewd but relatively moral people, care about their friends. It's good business. "What goes around, comes around," and so let's all be nice. But that isn't Jesus' point. He tell us to show kindness, especially when we won't be beneficiaries of it later. (We are often quite kind, when we will benefit in some way later!) Unselfish, serving love -- agape love -- is what he is illustrating here. Self-love seeks repayment -- the sooner the better. Agape love seeks no repayment.

But there will be a day when we will be repaid in full. In the Father's Kingdom Jesus' disciples will have the high status of sons of the King. There will be a payday, someday. But we are not to seek it now, in this life. The eyes of faith are trained to look beyond the seen, to the unseen. "While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal." (2 Corinthians 4:18).

LEARN MERCY FROM GOD'S EXAMPLE (6:35-36)

"35. But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.
36. Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful." (6:35-36)

Jesus has digressed a bit and generalized his instructions about love to all mankind. But now he narrows the view again to enemies. Anyone can love friends -- and we must -- but the test of real love comes with loving enemies. And into that school Jesus thrusts his disciples. If they would follow him they must learn the Father's way, the way of long-suffering, the way of love, the way of mercy. Jesus gives three commands as the elements of this pass-fail exam:

* Love your enemies
* Do good to them
* Lend to them without expecting to get anything back.

ON LENDING

In America we live in a credit culture. Young people are encouraged to incur a little debt and then pay it back at regular intervals in order to develop a credit rating. People commonly borrow to buy a house, buy a car, purchase living room furniture. Buy now, pay later. When we read about lending in the Bible we need to purge our thoughts of borrowing for these purposes. They just didn't.

Sometimes businessmen might borrow to set up a business, but interest rates could be 20% or 30%. Moneylenders were tolerated in First Century Palestine (Matthew 25:14-30; Luke 19:11-27)[8], though looked down upon. There was no Small Business Administration loan to provide a "grubstake" to begin a business. Business loans were a much later development. Jews were prohibited to loan on interest to other Jews, especially to help the subsist. The Law provided considerable protection to the poor, when it was enforced.[9]

People borrowed when they were needy, when they had a reversal of fortunes and needed money for food. Borrowing was not entered into lightly. If you think loaning money to your useless brother-in-law to help provide for your sister's family is a recent invention, you'd be wrong. People lent to family members. Sometimes they were paid back, often they were not.

One nasty fact of First Century life was debtor's prison. The lender could demand repayment, and if it were not forthcoming, he could throw the debtor into prison until he would pay his debt (Matthew 5:25-26; Luke 12:58-59; Matthew 18:30). This seems counter-intuitive to us. How can he pay his debts if he can't work? we wonder. Family and friends, having pity on their blood relative -- or feeling shame for not doing anything for their own flesh and blood -- would ante up, pay off the debt, and the debtor would be released.

But what if the debtor had no family or friends? What if he were a miserable good-for-nothing whose friends had long ago deserted him? What if he were threatened with prison. What then?

FORGIVEN DEBTORS

Then, says Jesus, the Christians who he is persecuting should ante up on his behalf and lend the money to get him released. No matter if the Christian is not repaid. Here is a wonderful test case for Jesus' disciples, an opportunity to help a miserable insolent unbeliever purely out of love, with no hope of reward.

That, Jesus says, is real mercy. That comes closest to the Father's style of mercy than any other possible repayment can the Father expect from us miserable sinners. We surely can't repay enough to compensate for the precious blood of Jesus that was shed on our behalf, that atoned for our sins. Mercy to those who have no way of repayment? Jesus' death for our sins is one such case.

And disciples of Jesus must learn to be merciful. Not when it is useful. Not when it is convenient. Not when the recipient is worthy. Mercy is never justified. It is given freely. That is what we disciples must learn.

"35. But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.
36. Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful." (6:35-36)

The cost of learning this costly mercy to enemies may be some insults and slander. Some blows to the cheek and stolen cloaks. But to learn this is to learn the essence of the Gospel. And the reward is God-likeness, the most rarefied gift Jesus' Spirit can bestow.

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PRAYER

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Lord, the more I ponder these uncompromising words, the more I realize that I am in agape kindergarten. Please help me to take your words seriously and not discount them. Make your point deep in my heart. Teach me your mercy. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

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QUESTIONS

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1. Why is the real test of agape love, being able to love your enemies? If we fail this test, do we really have agape love?

2. Do you see "turning the other cheek" and giving your enemy your tunic as literal, figurative, hyperbole, or what? What is the point Jesus is making here?

3. Why is loving your enemy so much like divine love? What is the implication of this for our salvation? For our lifestyle?

4. What is the difference in effect of stating the Golden Rule as a negative ("Don't do to others, as ..."), as did Rabbi Hillel, rather than a positive ("Do to others, as ..."), as did Jesus?

5.  Are you living it?  Do you read articles like these and think, "Well, I should be doing that", and then simply not think on it anymore?  Think about specific examples in your life, and honestly see how you stack up against Jesus' Words.  

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REFERENCES

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1. BAG 331.
2. BAG 522-523.
3. F. Büchsel, "ara, ktl.," TDNT 1:448-451.
4. BAG 285.
5. Merriam-Webster, p. 570.
6. T.W. Manson, The Sayings of Jesus (Eerdmans, 1979, originally published 1937), p. 51.
7. Shabbath 31a, quoted by Morris, p. 130.
8. Merlin W. Call, "Bank, Banking," ISBE 1:408-409.
9. Robert J. Wyatt, "Interest," ISBE, 2:860-861. John E. Hartley, "Debt," ISBE 905-906.

 

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